Friends or foes?

Undoubtedly, friends are one of the most important thing in our life. We always meet our friends in our daily life,thus they may affect our life,sometimes. Some of them are close with us,others may just a friend. Its not that easy to have a trusted and loyal friends. But among of these friends, some of them are having problems with us.Maybe they can't accept our behaviors,attitudes and personality,so that's why we should suit ourselves whenever we go to a new place. But,instead of telling us the truth,they tell to any other friends or people about our weakness and badness,and of course,they do it secretly behind our back. So,the first thing come in our mind,we might say that they are backstabbers and hypocrite.

But somehow,we must always think about the positive side. We must know what actually are bothering them.It would be stupid if they say they hate us because of nothing.Actually,I've already experience this situation,and I know how its feel. Sometimes we should muhasabah ourselves. We are humans,they are no chance in hell that human may escape from doing any mistakes in their life. and of course,we can't satisfy everyone's feeling. So,that's why me must look at ourselves back. Throw away the badness,take the positive one.
So,friends or foes? It doesn't make any sense. We should be forgivable,well. even the Prophet Muhammad forgive his ummah.
Arh! Oh my god! My assignments! Better be hurry~!!

Conflict

Conflicts is a must I guess..In our life,I'm quite sure about it.. It could be conflicts in family,conflicts among friends and maybe with your 'game'..heh..
Well,as I can see now,my friends are having conflicts with each others.. In my opinion,
its simply because of jealousy,hatred,misunderstanding and selfish.. but conflicts are rubbish,as it can destroy the friendship that we have build before.. If we have some problems,please say it,discuss it.. simple right? ouh,one more..say/discuss it with a nice and proper way.. we as Malaysians are known with 'budi bahasa' right?

But what about conflicts in a family?
Seriously it could be a disaster..to be honest,it happened to my family before and sometimes we still feel its consequences..

well,about that 'game', the key just be honest,loyal and never find others.. give and take situations should not be taken lightly.. Betrayal is just too hurt.. but sometimes, loyalty is a poison..

thats all for now